Recently, Caitlyn used some leftover birthday money to buy herself a ballerina barbie...a black ballerina barbie. Of course, we have no issues with this, but she kept referring to it as her "black-skinned" barbie; which is also how she refers to some of her friends. Certainly she isn't prejudiced or racist, it's just how she describes black people. We had to gently explain to her that most black people don't like to be called "black-skinned".
This has made me think more about the unique dynamics that will exist in our family. I know I want our adopted child to know her heritage and take pride in it. But I also know that being Ethipion American is different from being Black American or White American and that some of our greatest work will be in helping her feel comfortable in several cultures. My daughter's recent "political incorrectness" has made me realize that I don't know how to do that. At least not, yet. Looks like I've got some homework to do.
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